The Unbearable Shame of Madness

issue #8 :: august 2023

  • “It promotes deviance and sexual transformation […], and its content violates morals and values, especially the value of the family, and contradicts the moral and religious principles that form the strong fortress of Lebanese society!” 

Lebanese Minister of Culture in his directive to prevent Barbie film screening.

  • “This attack represents a systematic effort by some elements aligned with the agendas of certain non-governmental organizations to promote homosexuality and gender transformation and encourage them, depicting them as natural matters.” 

The Lebanese Minister of Culture once again proposed an anti-homosexuality promotion law.

  • “The call to confront ideas contradicting the creator’s system and the principles that unite the Lebanese people.” 

From the Ministerial Consultative Meeting statement held at the Maronite Patriarchate in Diman.

  • “A situation that needs to be addressed, instead of being legislated or promoted.” 

Member of Parliament Ashraf Rifi presented a bill to criminalize the promotion of homosexuality.

  • “Beirut is for the honorable, not the deviants, and Beirut is a red line; don’t test us on the streets.” 

In his speech at a public gathering, Assistant General Inspector of Dar Al-Fatwa in the Lebanese Republic.

  • “Their ultimate fate in this world and the hereafter is to be subject to Islamic punishment and killed.” 

Secretary-General of Hezbollah in his speech addressing homosexuality.

  • “It is the land of the Lord, and there is no place for you among us, you progeny of Satan!” 

Soldiers of God group as they attacked a bar in Beirut hosting an artistic performance by the LGBTQA+ community.

Meanwhile,

  • Lebanese comedian Nour Hajjar is summoned for interrogation by the military police because of a joke about the living conditions of Lebanese army soldiers. Hajjar will be referred to military court for trial.

     

  • A Sunni Sharia court judge files a report with the public prosecutor’s office against comedian Nour Hajjar for “endangering public order” due to a joke about his mother’s behavior during a religious occasion. The report also included Cinemoz TV for airing the sketch, as well as the organizers of the KED venue.

     

  • Hajjar was referred to the criminal investigations department after a report from the secretary of fatwa in the Lebanese Republic, under the direction of the Republic’s Mufti, due to the same joke.

All of this happened in August!

Meaning:

A comprehensive economic and financial collapse, a republic lacking a president, a caretaker government incapable of decision-making, a parliament unable to enact legislation, a central bank without a governor struggling to control the currency market, banks facing severe liquidity issues, armed conflicts erupting in the Ain al-Hilweh refugee camp, Israeli annexation of the entire Ghajar Lebanese village, the extension of UNIFIL forces with no regard for Lebanon’s interests, utter governmental shortfall, a Lebanese army operation against a drug trafficking group resulting in casualties and injuries, the resurgence of ISIS factions, Beirut airport grappling with sweltering temperatures due to a lack of air conditioning, the suspension of the Beirut port explosion investigation, two fatalities in an armed clash in Kahhaleh, the proliferation of Israeli espionage networks, and an extremist group known as Soldiers of God forcibly shutting down a Beirut bar while security forces observed without intervening.

In short, it is an absolute madness fiesta.

At first glance, one might not find another explanation behind the actions undertaken by the authorities and certain sectors of society aside from sheer and profound insanity. What sort of mindset shifts its attention away from a catastrophe to dedicate its energies to suppressing a marginalized segment of the population? What kind of mindset disregards the implosion of an entire society in favor of claiming to safeguard the family against the perceived encroachment of “foreign” and “unnatural” values? What kind of mindset evades assuming responsibility for the collapse—or, at the very least, managing it—and instead attributes the blame entirely to a “conspiracy”? What mindset perceives laughter as a menacing threat?

In the 1950s, the renowned American psychologist Julian Rotter formulated his well-known theory of Locus of Control, gauging the degree to which individuals believe they can influence the outcomes of events. This Locus of Control can be categorized as either internal (reflecting the belief that one has control over one’s own life) or external (indicating the belief that life is governed by external factors beyond one’s control). According to this theory, numerous psychological studies indicate the following:

 

The further an individual’s locus of control tilts towards external factors, the more they experience a sense of losing control over their own destiny, which can manifest in symptoms like helplessness, anxiety, tension, and depression. They often tend to attribute blame to others and ascribe their actions to external elements such as fate and luck. Could this perspective help us understand the “Madness Fiesta”? Before delving into this, perhaps we should incorporate a profound contemplation on the concept of shame into the above mentioned theory.

American researcher John Bradshaw says: “Healthy shame is the psychological foundation of humility. Shame as a healthy human emotion can be transformed into shame as a state of being. As a state of being, shame takes over one’s whole identity […] Once shame is transformed into an identity, it becomes toxic and dehumanizing. Toxic shame is unbearable and always necessitates a cover-up, a false self”.

In his research, Bradshaw elucidates, drawing on the contributions of those who preceded him, how toxic shame gives rise to a fabricated persona and how this counterfeit self evolves into a wellspring of psychological disturbances, criminal violence, and political violence. Toxic shame generates itself, requiring no external triggers; it’s an inherent existential condition experienced by humans, imposing an excruciating sense of shame upon themselves. It is an insufferable emotional burden. As Bradshaw contends, one of the mechanisms for concealing this type of shame is to project it onto others and release suppressed anger through acts of violence, oppression, and even murder. This behavior is characterized as neurotic.

What is happening in Lebanon is merely a small-scale illustration of a broader issue plaguing the entire Arab region. In Iraq, for example, the parliament is discussing a law that proposes the death penalty for homosexuals, all while the nation grapples with numerous threats and the scientifically substantiated projections of the Tigris and Euphrates rivers completely drying up by the year 2050.

Based on what we have previously presented in a very brief manner, we assert that people in the Arab region are living in a state of helplessness as a result of the cumulative impact of historical events that have pushed their “Locus of Control” to the extreme end of “external control” (External Locus Of Control) and have caused them to live with a “toxic shame” identity. These two conditions have gradually permeated the individual psyche, evolving into a collective state. It is a society trapped in its subconscious, gripped by a profound sense of powerlessness, accompanied by feelings of anxiety, tension, and depression, in addition to a deep-rooted and longstanding sense of toxic shame, producing uncontrollable anger. It is a society that predominantly seeks external explanations for its failures and resorts to violence as the easiest outlet for its pent-up tension while concealing its unbearable sense of shame.

Is there a vortex more dangerous and ominous than this one?

We stand in unwavering solidarity with Nour Hajjar, Mariam Majdoline Lahham, the LGBTQA+ community, and all the marginalized individuals on this earth.